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Monday, April 12, 2010
being apologetic.
 Grabbed this from my bestie's blog. So, credits to Huimin. (: Yes, and I agree with this quote so much. If you value that relationship or friendship more than your own ego can hold, you'll let go of that ego and apologize. Apologize not necessarily because you're entirely in the wrong, but apologize because you don't want to lose that relationship or friendship to this issue. Or apologize because you can't let a matter affect the feelings and crush the relationship in our own hands. Friendship is like that, kinship is like that too. And no doubt, relationships works this way too. Sometimes, knowing you're genuinely sorry and apologetic is good. Admitting to that dumb mistake, making amends to salvage the tore feelings. All is takes, is for someone to know exactly what went wrong and learn from their own mistakes. One mistake isn't enough to make us learn. But how many mistakes can we actually afford to make in life? One mistake, learn from it. But in actual fact, how many can really let go of that ego to say "I'm Sorry."? And not to say it for the sake of saying it to please the other party and make the anger and disappointment go away. But say it for the sake of really knowing you did wrong, you made the other party upset, for the sake of salvaging the problem and making everything okay again. (No worries, nothing is wrong with my life now.) |
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